Hand-holding goes both ways
Koontz - One of the jobs a contractor has to deal with, and I expect designers and architects do the same, is to act as a cheerleader and hand-holder for the client. We try to encourage the client's participation and choices and we often have to soothe their anxieties regarding their project. Did they, (the client), make the right choice in materials? Do we, (the contractors), really think such and such will work? Why do things look so bad at this stage? Why aren't things moving along quicker? Why does the carpenter act like he hates me everytime I ask him/her a question? When, for God's sake, will this be over?
All of these questions rightly filter back to the general contractor and much of his or her time is spent soothing the fears and concerns of the clients' who are dealing with a group of people they don't know, who've invade their home for an extended period of time.
From the contractor's point-of-view, hand-holding is an inevitable part of every project. And we complain about having to do it. What we want to say to the client is, "Hey, you hired me because I know what I'm doing and you don't, so let go of my ears and let me spend my time on the job rather than pacifing you." That line would come across as badly spoken out loud though as it does in print, so instead, we grit our teeth and take the time to explain things we'd rather not have to.
The truth is that the better informed the client, the happier everyone ultimately is, but the time it takes to explain often feels like wasted time from the contractor's end of things.
So what a surprise I had on this new job when the client didn't call after the first big day of demolition to say that she was either thrilled or freaked out. I waited and waited for the phone call-I was sure it would come! And at 8:30pm, I finally called her, (and I never call clients at that hour!). I just couldn't stop myself. Do you know what she said to me? "So who's holding whose hand now?". I believe that's called getting my comeuppence...Turned out she was thrilled, but didn't think she needed to gush about it, or ask any questions, (it was after all what we had discussed wasn't it?). She knew it wasn't the end result, but the beginning, so no worries about the rough look. She drove me crazy with her logical attitude and the implicit trust that I claim to yearn for, but to my mind, always have to remind clients about.
It was a good lesson for me, and perhaps the next client who does need the reassurance will tax my patience far less-because for once I seemed to have been on the other side.
All of these questions rightly filter back to the general contractor and much of his or her time is spent soothing the fears and concerns of the clients' who are dealing with a group of people they don't know, who've invade their home for an extended period of time.
From the contractor's point-of-view, hand-holding is an inevitable part of every project. And we complain about having to do it. What we want to say to the client is, "Hey, you hired me because I know what I'm doing and you don't, so let go of my ears and let me spend my time on the job rather than pacifing you." That line would come across as badly spoken out loud though as it does in print, so instead, we grit our teeth and take the time to explain things we'd rather not have to.
The truth is that the better informed the client, the happier everyone ultimately is, but the time it takes to explain often feels like wasted time from the contractor's end of things.
So what a surprise I had on this new job when the client didn't call after the first big day of demolition to say that she was either thrilled or freaked out. I waited and waited for the phone call-I was sure it would come! And at 8:30pm, I finally called her, (and I never call clients at that hour!). I just couldn't stop myself. Do you know what she said to me? "So who's holding whose hand now?". I believe that's called getting my comeuppence...Turned out she was thrilled, but didn't think she needed to gush about it, or ask any questions, (it was after all what we had discussed wasn't it?). She knew it wasn't the end result, but the beginning, so no worries about the rough look. She drove me crazy with her logical attitude and the implicit trust that I claim to yearn for, but to my mind, always have to remind clients about.
It was a good lesson for me, and perhaps the next client who does need the reassurance will tax my patience far less-because for once I seemed to have been on the other side.
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